In this call from my radio show, I talk to an 18 year old who wants to make sure she’s not being treated as a doormat during dance auditions and in life.

Sometimes, it’s hard to be nice and sweet while at the same time standing up for oneself.

There’s a thin line between being nice and being perceived as a doormat.  So how do you strike a balance?

How would you answer this life-defining question? No, really! What would you tell her?

Please comment and give her (me) your suggestions.

Listen now and then offer your advice.

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